Tuesday's Tests --- Day 7

Day 7

Today we moved forward, but both of us were feeling a bit more sluggish. Big Z didn't have any desire to talk with people after school, but we did anyhow. I was feeling feverish and dizzy for some reason by late afternoon. I knew that sleep was the cure.

Regardless, I called the leads--- it's a good thing that 3 came through by accident yesterday. One wasn't any good at all, however. The man I spoke with, though frustrated by his situation, was very kind. Since he had so much trouble, I felt it best to wish him well and move on. Using the script, tailored to me and my own style, I left messages for our other 2 people (taken from the World Changer Training Manual). Even though I've made calls to people I don't know before, when it's been awhile, I always get nervous, and then, as time moves on, they get easier.

Since I was on a roll, (or, is that a donut?), I thought to call another person who'd asked for info on a home business. I called and left the message, as above. This person called me back a short time later asking who it was that called. I thanked her for the return call, and asked if she had listened to my message, and why I called her. She said she hadn't. She said it was a bad time, and while I was talking, seeking to ask her when a better time was, she hung up. I finished my sentences anyhow.

It wasn't long and she dialed me back again. I thanked her again for her call, and asked if she was O.K.? I made sure now was a better time. She said it was. I clarified her information by asking if she'd remembered filling out a form asking to know more about a home business. She did. I asked if she remembered filling out questions that related to how much she wanted to make in a month, what she could invest to get started, why she was looking for a home business, and, how many hours she could work. She said she remembered doing that. I asked if she'd listened to my message. She said she had listened to part of it, but she stopped listening, and she said it was something about a home business and a website. So, I began to tell her more. She cut me off and started firing some questions, pushing me to let her know more, to tell her quickly. I told her that the website has a presenation that shares with her much better than I could if she now is short of time, that it's the fastest way for her to know more. She ultimately got frustrated when I couldn't tell her more than I already had, that we were with My Power Mall, a Division of Together We Can Change the World, etc. She hung up on me. Clearly, this still wasn't the time to talk with her. I wish her well and hope she finds what she is looking for.

I spoke with a very good friend of mine who is already a business mall owner. We check in on occasion about all sorts of things. Today I got to share with her about the Business Partnership Program, and the A-ha that Linda gave me when she spoke about listing a business (I have a Reconnective Healing business, and didn't even think to list myself!). I caught her up on a few ideas, and we chuckled because I'd gotten a phone call from a non-profit organization in New York a few minutes beforehand. Lately, I've been asking her to think about who she wishes to support so we can start supporting them under her business. The number one organization is the Celiac Foundation. It was good to talk, share ideas, strategize and dream. She decided after our call to go in and buy her hubby a gift for Christmas on her personal mall. I won't tell you what it was because, just in case he reads this, it could let the cat out of the bag. Suffice it to say, she had her own A-ha, the reminder to shop in her own mall, and she asked me to update her on a few of the inner workings of the system (she has a 2 year old, is in college getting her Master's, after moving across the country, and recently moved again after her husband got a job upon completion of his Master's). She is going to attempt to keep a closer eye on what's happening after she gets finished with her schooling this quarter.

We wrote a letter to Big Z's Team updating them on what we're up to, and the recent developments for MPM. The person above is one of them, so, the now all have our blog address and we hope they will tune in, be inspired, and enjoy the fun and connecting that is happening amongst the Boot Camp participants.

Big Z got a return phone call from his Aunt. He got to ask her his questions and talk with her about his business (usually it's Mom who does this with this Aunt, so, for me, it was so heart warming to listen to each of them "talk business" with each other). She's open to learning more, as she is always, always, a supporter of Big Z, in whatever it is he chooses in life. She positively adores him, and since she has no children of her own, it's her nephews and nieces that bring her joy, intrigue, laughs, play, and a depth of love and appreciation of their unique ways of being in this world. She works as an R.N. with Hospice in her local area. She has a tremendous heart, and gives her All and then some for the people she works with. Her biggest dream is to have a place on her land to bring troubled young people and help them learn life skills, and improve their lot in life, and to introduce them to her passion, horses. Of course, the horses would provide a source of healing, friendship, and be of assistance for these young people's communication skills.

We mailed another friend our link so she may stay abreast of what's happening for us as she is an advid follower of most Reality TV shows. She's supportive of Big Z and our dreams, however, she's not much into growing a business at this time (even though she's a MaryKay Girl that buys for her sisters and herself). It will be fun to hear her response to our blog, and to learn if she tunes into the 25 folks that are in the fish-bowl, those who are leading the way, blazing new trails, and stepping far, far outside of their comfort zones. Our friend is a wonder, and a big supporter of her kids' school, and the PTA. She is always, always giving, to her family, to her friends, to her kids and husband. She's a giver and she always amazes me, inspires me, and gives me hope. She's friendly to everyone, and her smile is genuine and full of care.

We spoke with another friend about whether she may have interest to know more, and were sensitive to the fact that her life and that of her loved ones is quite challening right now. She wants to know more, and we'll check in again in about 3 weeks to see if timing is better then. She liked the idea of having the links to the blogs to follow along with if she's ever up late in the night and is surfing the web. I know my son would agree, it would be awesome as ever to work with her and her family. We love 'em and get great joy from them, and it would feel so great to help boost their financial portfolio.

Another friend said her husband will contact us soon, that he's been really, really busy. I told her I knew that I would, and I ribbed that he must or he'll keep hearing from me ;-).

That's not really true, you know? We don't chase people, rather, we give them enough time to see the information to make an informed decision for themselves about whether My Power Mall can help them achieve more. It's right for some; it's not right for all. We are individuals, and not everyone can be attracted to what we have to offer. It's an amazing system. Everyone shops for everything they need, online and locally. They can USE My Power Mall for their own benefit, YES. But, it's still not for everyone. We respect everyone's particular needs and wants.

What I'm excited about for these friends is the Business Partnership Program. They have a business already, and this is a wonderful way to supplement their income in this slumping economy. Their industry has held out quite well in our area, but, it is still feeling the crunch, and they in particular, have had challenges that are testing their limits.

After school, we went to a sports shop to peek around. They are going out of business, and we spend time there now and then. As we walked in, much of their inventory is gone. It's sad sometimes, to see a business have to close their doors. We wandered around, and then asked the young folks at the counter if they had anything lined up when the store closed. Neither did, and they confessed that those people who typically don't work retail are doing so now since they need a job. They weren't sure what they were going to do come January. I added my understanding of their situation because I have been seeking employment for a few months, and though I've had some bites, nothing has panned out. Even the temp. agency I was working with said, after I learned that my spot for a bit of shift work wouldn't be there after I'd counted on it, "The economy is bad right now. Everyone is looking for work."

So we got their permission to ask them our questions, and their responses were: 1) pay debt, pay college debt and 2) travel. With an extra $2000/month? 1) pay more debt and 2) travel and pay college loans.

We got to question number three and had our cards handy. With that, the young woman asked while she took her hands into the air to create the shape, "Is this one of those pyramid things?" I explained that it is not, and what she may be referring to is not a pyramid, but instead network marketing. I added that My Power Mall is neither network marketing or affiliate marketing. It's totally new, but it does have elements of both. We had placed the invitation cards on the counter by this time. And, before we got further, a gentleman that had come into the store after us came up to the counter with a question. He wanted to buy all the LaCrosse gear and wondered if he could get a free duffle bag if he did. We stepped aside, and wandered the store some more.

Big Z found items that he was excited about, and I admit, they had some pretty good deals, especially if you had cash in your wallet or your American Express Gift Card in your pocket ;-). Eventually, we said good-bye as they were still very engaged with selling this man his supplies, and I still wasn't feeling all that great, and Big Z was also needing some down time.

We went to the video store to get a video. It wasn't busy at all. Tonight, we figured, we needed some down-time. Eat dinner. Have a video and play monopoly. Big Z says, "I want to have a business, but I want to play more." I'll do my best to keep us both in balance. The weather and darker days have caused us to reduce our summer and fall time play of bike riding to a minimum. We must continue to look for other forms of play together to stay healthy.

Big Z purchased a lot of property during our continued game of Monopoly. I gained a wealthly stash of cash. We had a great meal. Big Z had fun while watching Scooby-Do, and I was reminded of their antics as I'd not seen Shag and Scoob since my younth. In spite of my swirling head, I was content in our decision to share a leisurely evening together.